Happy Valentines to all!

Enjoying this predetermined day of romance? ;)


I am getting bitter emails from my single friends which I can sort of understand in a way (ehm when your colleagues receive huge bouquets of roses and you get nothing-sure) but I cant help but think it’s slightly pathetic at the same time. I mean valentines day is very cute for whoever is in a loving relationship. Its a reason to show him or her how much they mean for you. It’s great to get presents (which makes me think I should have kept on dating a guy I was seeing not too long ago..he would have definitely got me something over the top today..but then again..its so not worth it.)

But seriously singles..why the bitterness and desperation today?

I refuse to get bitter on valentines day...what's tha all about? I’m enjoying my life..and I won’t settle for anything less than butterflies and a great person quite frankly. Maybe I’m in that single zone..that zone that I should probably be afraid I’ll never get out of..when you are just a little too comfortable being very selfish and self absorbed and independent. I mean so many people have told me “in a nice way” that maybe I’m just a little too strong and a little too independent for anyone to feel that they can take care of me (isn't that just weird and backwads of someone to say that though?)..but until I find that right person (who gets me!)I feel pretty damn good spending Valentines with my lovely lovely friends like I’m doing tonight.