Lunching..

Just came back from a lunch with an old friend from High school. We havent kept in touch at all but I always liked her for being a fun outgoing girl. She has been living in London for the last 4-5 years and just graduated from university and took a trip to new York for fun..I love how people always travel through New York and call me up even if we haven't met in years. It's a great attitude..because why not? You used to have fun, it might just be fun to meet again and catch up. Then again this catching up thing kind of depends on who it is too. Sometimes it really sucks when some random looser from whenever calls you up to tell you theyre coming into town..."oh really, yeah of course we have to go for drinks" and then youve ruined a night because why the hell would you want to spend time with THAT person who was never even that much fun to begin with. Sometimes its really surprisig to see who actually calls you when theyre here..and sometimes its even more interesting to find out who DOESN'T .(my ex was in town recently and defintely didn't call me up. thanks for that..but I get it...sort of - dumbass..hhaha).
However..I think that's something I have learnt from living in this city of constant opportunities that you never really loose that much by meeting up with those long lost friends or that person that keeps bugging you to come out for a drink. You might just renew an old friendship, find a new friendship, a good contact or in worst case have a bit of a boring night/day. And who has ever died from that? I think it's just mportant to try to be open to people..in the long run it can really only benefit you, even if its just a funny story at the end of the day.